The Real Game — Coaching Intake

Your outcome

Name or client ID *

Your timezone *

What is the single most valuable change you want from coaching? *

Why did you join now? *

Your next two priorities, in order

What do you want your dating or relationship life to look like in 12 months?

What are you pursuing? *

Ideal dates per week (quality and fit matter too)

What kind of person and relationship would actually fit your life?

Your time and program

Program start date, if known

How long is your program? Include the number of weeks or months (for example, 3 months). *

Total hours available per normal week, including calls, learning, practice, dates and travel *

Total hours available in a busy week *

Which days and time blocks can you realistically protect? Include work, travel or family constraints. *

Which recurring calls can you usually attend? Times shown in Los Angeles time; confirm the current Skool calendar. *

Does your program include 1-1 calls with Jay? *

Your current reality

What feels like your biggest challenge with dating right now? It is fine if you have little or no recent experience. *

Which channels do you want to use, and which do you want to avoid? Apps, Instagram, daytime, nightlife, social circle. *

Any extreme constraints we should account for when planning your coaching? If none, leave blank.

Which lessons, guides or recorded group calls have you already used? What did you actually apply?

What helps you put material into practice? Examples, short lessons, written notes, drills, live feedback, accountability? What has not worked?

Inner game

How much inner-game work do you want? *

If useful, what percentage of your development time would you like devoted to inner game? Optional preference, not a fixed prescription.

What internal change would matter most? Describe what you would do or feel differently. No detailed trauma history needed.

Anything you prefer to discuss privately with Jay, or do not want included in your plan?

Where you are now

How true is each statement for you right now? There are no right or wrong answers.

I feel confident in who I am as a man.

I can stay grounded without needing attention or approval from women.

I can handle rejection or disappointment and move forward.

I can respond to a new situation without letting past experiences control my reaction.

I can express my standards and maintain my boundaries.

I follow through on the actions I commit to.

Outer game

Choose the outer-game skill you most want to improve first *

Any upcoming date, event or situation your first plan should prepare you for? Include the date if relevant.

Your skill snapshot

Rate demonstrated ability, not just familiarity. “Not tested” is useful information.

Photos, style and online presentation

Apps and Instagram conversations

Daytime approaching

Nightlife and social circles

Conversation, teasing and storytelling

Body language and tonality

Texting, voice notes and setting dates

Dates, connection and mutual physical interest

Retention, communication and compatibility

Anything else?

Anything important we have missed?

Your goals.
Your gameplan.

Your outcome

Your time and program

Your current reality

Inner game

Where you are now

Outer game

Your skill snapshot

Anything else?

Review your answers

Your goals.Your gameplan.

Your outcome

Your time and program

Your current reality

Inner game

Where you are now

Outer game

Your skill snapshot

Anything else?

Review your answers

Your goals.
Your gameplan.